"improving" pair handler clean up and some other stuff

LightlessSync/Interop/Ipc/IpcManager.cs

@@ -5,6 +5,8 @@ namespace LightlessSync.Interop.Ipc;
 
 public sealed partial class IpcManager : DisposableMediatorSubscriberBase
 {
+    private bool _wasInitialized;
+
     public IpcManager(ILogger<IpcManager> logger, LightlessMediator mediator,
         IpcCallerPenumbra penumbraIpc, IpcCallerGlamourer glamourerIpc, IpcCallerCustomize customizeIpc, IpcCallerHeels heelsIpc,
         IpcCallerHonorific honorificIpc, IpcCallerMoodles moodlesIpc, IpcCallerPetNames ipcCallerPetNames, IpcCallerBrio ipcCallerBrio) : base(logger, mediator)
@@ -18,7 +20,8 @@ public sealed partial class IpcManager : DisposableMediatorSubscriberBase
         PetNames = ipcCallerPetNames;
         Brio = ipcCallerBrio;
 
-        if (Initialized)
+        _wasInitialized = Initialized;
+        if (_wasInitialized)
         {
             Mediator.Publish(new PenumbraInitializedMessage());
         }
@@ -58,5 +61,13 @@ public sealed partial class IpcManager : DisposableMediatorSubscriberBase
         Moodles.CheckAPI();
         PetNames.CheckAPI();
         Brio.CheckAPI();
+
+        var initialized = Initialized;
+        if (initialized && !_wasInitialized)
+        {
+            Mediator.Publish(new PenumbraInitializedMessage());
+        }
+
+        _wasInitialized = initialized;
     }
 }